My Aunt Is In Prison
My aunt has been jailed and I don’t know why. Either last week or this week she was put in prison. I have family all over the world and not one person has been able to tell me what is going on, why it happened. All I have heard is that she is innocent, she was jailed without cause. I’ve also heard some amazingly colorful stories like she was taken from home naked and put in a cell naked. (I’m pretty sure that story is not true.)
My family and my life are worthy of a book. Seriously! The things I’ve done, seen and been through, it’s unreal.
One of the biggest tools that changed my life is from Access Consciousness. It is the question: What do I love about trauma and drama?
I was born into and grew up in a phenomenal environment of trauma and drama. You know how some people might have one or two things happen to them a year or every few months? In my house and in my family the longest period of time that could go by with no trauma or drama was a week. That was the LONGEST period of nothing really bad happening. If two family members that didn’t get together got together you could be sure that within 5 days a war would have broken out.
As I’ve gotten older and the years have gone buy that trauma and drama has manifested as quite severe illness, problems with friends, thefts of GREAT magnitude and now imprisonment.
What if you could just cut out all of the trauma and drama in your life? What would it be like to live in a stress free environment where you had total ease and peace?
If I can do it, you can!! Because I still have my totally dramatic family that is addicted to pain and unhappiness. What I did was run the question: “What do I love about trauma and drama?” for 7 days. The first time I used it for 3 days. I would ask as much as possible through the day “What do I love about trauma and drama?”.
To be honest I didn’t believe in that question or see any point of it until my baby kitten fell out of a two story window and was not doing very well. I was
fairly new to Access Consciousness, maybe about a year into it. I was using the tools, but some of them I just hadn’t bothered with. “What do I love about trauma and drama?” was one of the questions, the other one was “Who does this belong to? Return to sender with consciousness attached.”. Interestingly enough those two really shifted things for me dynamically.
So, I was in the car with this baby kitten on my lap running every Access question I could think of. I was demanding something different when all
of a sudden it hit me: “What do I love about trauma and drama?”. All of a sudden I was able to tap into how I did love trauma and drama. I stopped
fighting and throwing up my hands (metaphorically) and denying my long and faithful love affair to trauma and drama.
I was able to run the trauma and drama question for three days and the reward for doing that was the trauma and drama I had been creating diminished by 70%. How cool is that? Obviously I STILL loved trauma and drama because I didn’t run the question again for a while. I’m pretty sure I did a three day challenge with my clients for the next time I ran it. But I ended up running it for at least four more days. My trauma and drama has been reduced by around 95%.
When my husband and I used to argue/fight it could go on for hours. We would break the cardinal rule (someone’s not mine) to not go to be angry. A fight would be something that I milked to make sure I got all the pain and suffering available from it. Heck, I would milk everything I could find to get as much pain, suffering and proof that I suck big time.
Now I’m lucky if an argument lasts for more than five minutes. I just can’t be bothered. I loved learning Abraham-Hicks concept about being right or feeling good. You have a choice, you can either be right or feel good. Since using the Access Consciousness tools I really can CHOOSE to feel good. It’s just a choice. The only difference is now I have tools that support me in making that choice.
Today with my family besides themselves the questions I am running are: What ease can I be here? What peace can I be here? What invitation can I be here? What energy, space and consciousness can I be that would allow all of this to change? AND What do I love about trauma and drama?
What do you love about trauma and drama? Are you ready to choose something different? What if being happy and having more ease were was a priority to you?
Thank you for being you!
I adore you!